As the founder of Subspace and an experienced Shibari teacher, my work is deeply rooted in consensual power exchange and embodied relational dynamics.
In my coaching, I don’t stand above you or ahead of you. I walk beside you.
I offer guidance, structure and practices shaped by years of personal and professional experience within the kink community. My approach is warm, attentive, and grounded in a deep familiarity with this landscape.
My sessions are created for people who feel drawn to intentional intimacy, to structured play, or to relational dynamics that explore tension, control, or surrender.
Both newcomers and seasoned practitioners are welcome, as are individuals and couples of all genders, identities, orientations, and backgrounds, including women, men, queer, non-binary and trans people.
I do not offer sexual services, and I do not work with single cisgender men. These boundaries keep the work focused, respectful, and aligned with its purpose.
Coaching with me is practical, immersive, and deeply embodied. Together, we explore how to communicate desire and limits, how to work with tension and presence, and how to bring clarity and depth into your dynamic.
You learn through experience -through movement, interaction, guided exercises, and reflection- rather than through therapeutic conversation alone.
The process feels alive. Often surprising in the most meaningful ways.
It tends to open doors quickly, offering insight, confidence, and tangible skills you can bring into your own play and relationships. It is meaningful work, but also the kind that expands you, excites you, and makes space for new possibilities.
This is coaching. Not sexual engagement.
Sessions are clothed, fully consensual, and centered on developing your skill, awareness, communication, and embodied confidence.
You can work with me individually or as a couple.
Sessions take place in person, in English or Dutch, and last 90 minutes.
Some people come for a single session to explore a specific theme; others choose ongoing coaching to deepen their practice over time.
Before we begin, we schedule an intake of 30 minutes to discuss your goals and ensure we are a good match.
Within the community, I am known for being approachable, grounded, and genuinely open-minded.
No pedestal.
No guru behaviour.
Just clarity, experience, and an honest, human way of working.
As the owner of Subspace, an active Shibari teacher, and someone with a strong and engaged network, I bring both depth and real-world understanding to this work. People come to me because I combine knowledge with warmth, structure with nuance, and technical skill with true relational presence.
If you’re looking for grounded guidance, a safe space to explore, and someone who understands both the structure and the subtlety of kink, feel free to reach out.
We can schedule an intake call and see whether this path resonates with you.
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